interview | beritan balci + sinan güleç

Beritan wears
coat. Sandro
earring. Massimo Dutti
Sinan wears
jacket. Massimo Dutti
shirt. Hugo
tie. Polo Ralph Lauren

The word “Almancı,” a colloquial, often pejorative Turkish term for those who emigrated to Germany and their descendants, has carried a heavy burden in the minds of both expatriates and Turkey for years. ‘She Said Maybe’ features a scene related to the use of this word, which perfectly sums up the film’s theme: identities caught between two cultures, the fragility of relationships, and a perspective that breaks down clichés. Netflix’s German-Turkish co-production tackles the complexities of modern love in a light tone, bringing to the screen clichéd family dynamics, women’s freedom to make decisions, and the shadow of the immigrant experience.

Schön! spoke with actors Beritan Balci and Sinan Güleç about the emotions evoked by this cross-cultural story, their experiences on set, and more.

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coat. AllSaints

coat. Sandro
socks. Calzedonia
shoes. Lauren Ralph Lauren

It’s so exciting to see new Turkish productions reaching global audiences through Netflix. ‘She Said Maybe’ seems to capture the complexities of modern relationships. What do you think is the strongest emotion or truth the film manages to portray?

Beritan: I feel like it’s compassion and also the longing for identity.

Were there moments where you found parallels between your characters’ dilemmas and your own personal experiences? How much of yourselves did you bring into these roles?

Sinan: Maybe it’s the absurdity of certain moments. For example, Can is trying to make a proposal in situations where it’s completely inappropriate to do so. And that feels very human. Sometimes I also think like that; doing something at a point when it’s not really appropriate. But most of the time, it actually leads me where I want to go. So it’s strange, but also okay.

Beritan: And I have to mention the proposal scene at the very end of the film. Sinan and I went through it together, and we had the freedom to add some text, some lines we wrote ourselves. So there are parts of that dialogue that we created just before shooting. We were given the chance to put our own thoughts into the scene, which was amazing. That kind of creative freedom doesn’t happen very often.

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necklace. AllSaints
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jacket. Massimo Dutti

That sounds really creative! Turkish films & series have built such a strong reputation internationally, but many still rely on familiar tropes. How does this project break away from clichés?

Beritan: First of all, because Yadigar is a woman. It’s almost like what in German we’d call Matriarchat, the opposite of patriarchy. The system is still there, but led by women rather than men. That’s really out of the box compared to how traditional families are usually represented, both in Turkey and in the West.

Sinan: Yes. On the surface, it may look traditional, but then it breaks away from that. Normally, in marriages, you have to follow strict rules between families, and traditions dictate a lot of things. But in this story, they approach it differently. They end up finding their own way, and things happen unexpectedly rather than according to a plan.

Beritan: Exactly. The drama is also much lighter than in most Turkish series. It feels different in that sense, too. One thing I really loved about the script was the relationship between Mavi and her mother. It’s not portrayed in the usual way. The mother isn’t an oppressor; she doesn’t decide for her daughter who to marry or what to do. Instead, it’s a very healthy, mature relationship. The mother allows Mavi to make her own choices, even if she might not agree with them. There’s that scene where she says, “You have to get to know Yadigar yourself. You have to make your own experiences.” That kind of freedom is rarely shown in films like this, and I thought it was beautiful.

Sinan wears
shirt + trousers. Hugo
tie. Polo Ralph Lauren
Beritan wears
dress. HUGO
socks. Calzedonia
earring. Massimo Dutti

dress. HUGO
socks. Calzedonia
shoes. Lauren Ralph Lauren
gloves. Karl Lagerfeld
earring. Massimo Dutti
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shirt + trousers. HUGO
tie. Polo Ralph Lauren
shoes. Massimo Dutti

When reading the script, were there particular scenes that immediately struck you as the heart of the story?

Sinan: I think the last scene, in front of the taxi. Can is about to leave Germany for a world tour, because he feels he has to make that choice. Mavi is trying to stop him. Throughout the film, so much happens to her so quickly, she discovers a new identity but doesn’t have time to process it. She’s constantly moving from one thing to another, and by the end, their love is damaged by everything that’s happened. That final scene, where we also added some of our own lines, is the heart of the story.

Beritan: I love that one too, but for me, there are others. For example, the scene after the magazines write about Kent and Mavi. She calls him, panicking, and apologizes: “If you read the Turkish newspapers, I’m so sorry.” And he simply says, “I know who we are, don’t worry.” That line has so much power and love in it. And the way Sinan delivers it is beautiful. You can tell they’ve created a safe space for each other, that they truly know who they are together.

Another favourite is the club scene. Edo asks Mavi what she’s going to wear to the big party, and she just says, “Whatever we have in our backpacks.” At first, I thought Mavi might come across as naïve, almost silly. But in that moment, you realize she isn’t naïve at all: she just doesn’t care about fitting in. Everyone else is dressed up, but she doesn’t feel the need to conform. She’s secure enough to just be herself. I really loved that.

Beyond the acting itself, what aspect of the set or creative process impressed you the most? Maybe the team dynamic, or a memorable behind-the-scenes moment?

Beritan: We had people from Turkey and Germany, speaking different mother tongues. We agreed to work in English, which sometimes worked and sometimes didn’t. But despite the challenges, with almost 100 people on set every day, we managed to make it work. That was incredible to me.

Sinan: For me, it was the discovery that filmmaking creates its own type of language. There are so many technical details, and when you bring together people from different backgrounds, it’s not easy. But I realized there’s a special language for how a film gets made. And what impressed me most was the patience people had with each other, even when communication wasn’t easy.

Sinan wears
coat. AllSaints
cardigan. Next
t-shirt. won hundred
trousers. wood wood
shoes Massimo Dutti
Beritan wears
coat. Massimo Dutti
dress. Mango
necklace. AllSaints
opposite
jacket + tank top. Massimo Dutti

Being part of a global platform like Netflix changes the way stories travel. How do you think this shapes your connection with audiences, both locally and internationally?

Sinan: For me, growing up half in Germany and half in Turkey already gave me an international perspective. You end up meeting people who are in-between cultures, like yourself. It becomes a natural magnetism.

Beritan: And then, of course, the reach is just unbelievable. Netflix has hundreds of millions of subscribers. People ask me a lot what that means to me, but I can’t picture it, even 100 people in a room is already overwhelming. What makes me happiest is when women write to me saying they watched the show with their mothers or grandmothers. They feel represented, they see themselves in it. That touches me deeply, and it makes me proud.

Finally, did your different experiences influence each other during the process?

Sinan: I think every person brings a different source of knowledge. When people come together and share, there’s always something to learn. We were lucky to share not only information but also cultural perspectives. And most importantly, we became good friends, which is invaluable.

Beritan: What made it really easy from the very beginning is that our cultural experiences connect us. I only lived in Turkey for three years, Sinan for half his life, but we both share that feeling of being between places: leaving one country, adapting to another, missing the old one without fully feeling at home in either.

We also share a love for theatre. Both of us studied in drama schools where theatre was central. One of the first times we met privately, after being cast, was when we went to see Hamlet in Hamburg together. That passion for stage acting is another thing that really connects us.

Sinan wears
coat AllSaints
Beritan wears
coat. Sandro

‘She Said Maybe’ is streaming now on Netflix.

photography. Benjamin Hampson
fashion. Alena Seifert
talents. Beritan Balci + Sinan Güleç
hair + make up. Alexandra Wolf
special thanks. The Team @ Netflix
interview. Alper Kurtel